盼

大概是這樣想的

有沒有誰 有時候

一直等待著誰的回覆

是習慣嗎？

是依賴嗎？

等不到回覆的心情 

期盼的心情

回想起這份執著是從什麼時候開始

是小時候逼著自己成長的不安感

還是習慣了一直有人陪伴的開始 就一發不可收拾？

無解⋯⋯

大概是不懂怎麼去表達需要很多愛的自己

在很小的時候就習慣給予

不擅長和任何人說 我需要的一切

還是那個總是害怕著如果真的有個人完完全全的懂了那個自己

那個只在黑暗的自己

就會離開了呢？

這些寒冷的天氣

是很舒服

卻多了分惆悵與寂寞

無人能與你分享

鬱

 有時候，

莫名的不安，

有時候，

忽然的憂鬱，

是酒精？

還是天氣？

還是那個琢磨不定的心？

不喜歡這樣莫名的哀傷與為了未發生的事情的那種不安與痛苦，

因為害怕

因為不捨

空洞

只剩下軀殼

也許有時候也只想 有個傾訴的出口

就像這樣

一如既往的記載

也懷念過往會記載所有快樂悲傷的自己

不是只有憂鬱才跑來這個屬於自己的樹洞

這幾個荷爾蒙發作的夜晚

難免 難眠

未 弎十

 29 

還是難以置信

即將步入30

2020年 時光像火箭一般迅速的過了

2020 很爛 很不好

每個人都說 2020 可以reset嗎？

2020 的人類被困瘋了

每天打開新聞 又有多少個人中了病毒

今天有有什麼負面的事 

誰的誰突然去世了

誰和誰離婚了

COVID-19都跨年到了2020 還可能倒數 2021年

一個病毒 都環遊世界了無數次

而你 只 能 被 困 在 這

其實 2020 真的有那麼的不好嗎？

其實 地球在這個時候慢慢的復原

其實 新加坡也有很多未被探索的地方

其實 沒有出門2個月也還好

其實 沒有回家 通過視訊看到家人也可以很溫馨

其實 沒去旅遊能省下蠻多錢

其實 還活著 有著愛你與你愛的人 

已 經 很 好

即將要開始的第29個年頭

我問自己 

有什麼改變嗎？

又變成熟了嗎？

心裡的小孩 還在嗎？

你和相愛的那個人 未來有規劃了嗎？

事業拼得如何？

一堆想要做 卻一直拖延著

我告訴自己不用rush

欲速則不達

很多問題沒有很準確的答案

有時候也不需要

回想過去的28年 有什麼坎是過不了的？

執著 放下 不斷的傷害自己 然後再舔拭傷口

一個人的苦 兩個人一起撐

兩個人的苦 再繼續努力的一起度過

我想 這就是成長與改變吧

以前在乎 執著的事

都變得比較看得開

放過自己 比較好吧

而 弎十之前

我只想 活 得 精 彩

不 留 遺 憾

懵懂

當初 是如此迅速地陷入愛
那是你的第一次
你以為愛很簡單
你迫不及待地 公開了給身邊的朋友知道
介紹了給身邊的朋友認識
你也漸漸融入了對方的朋友圈

原本你也不習慣 身邊多了一個人
要無時無刻都報備
到慢慢習慣那種無時無刻的分享
原本你未來的計畫沒有另一個人
到後來原來愛可以改變你未來的計畫

你把最好的一切奉獻了出去
掏心掏肺地
竭斯底裡的 愛著這個人
可惜愛不就只是你愛而已
摻雜了生活，雙方家人，工作，還有那些不確定的未來

最後 你還是 剩下自己一個人
自己一個人面對這一切 從兩個人又變回一個人的改變
那個未來 又再是一個人的
而你 也不會再輕易 把第二個人再放進你的未來裡

淡

這幾天回家 短短的幾天 卻發生了很多事

與家人的 說不清也理不清的心頭刺

儘管大家好像表面上沒有了事

我們都知道 那已成為大家心裡其中一條刺

有時候 就是你越想理清 越小心翼翼 也越說不出口

弱弱的只敢自己收在心裡

面對家人 總是有種無力感

想說 就這樣不理 反正也沒什麼回家 就沒事了

家 對我來說 也再也不是當年的避風港了

我總覺得　我無法改變甚麼　

所以　也只能這樣了…… 

隔了幾個月回家

這次沒有能與很多朋友見面

那種平淡　無從說起

但我也接受了

能見就見　對於朋友　不會再執著些甚麼

總是很珍惜　大家還可以聊天的那種感覺

無論甚麼事情　大家總可以聊

也因為大家聊起了大家的部落格時代

我看了朋友當年寫的那篇文章

他們的故事

也讓我想起我的

我想起了當年的我們

那種懵懂

那種青澀

那種刻骨

還有那種簡單

但是就像很多感情

總是有很多問題

很多情緒　

然後到最後結束

也說不清是甚麼原因

那就是分開了　還有很多很多後來還有現在要面對的總總

也寫過很多篇　關於我的不捨　不愉　痛苦　孤單　

總總負面　到正面　偶爾負面　又逼不得已正面的情緒

這些經歷　成就了現在的自己

看透很多　也放下了許多

我沒有再去執著誰對誰錯

因為感情的結束　從來都是兩個人或以上的問題

也覺得愛　從來都不容易

那些認為的簡單　從來都不簡單

那些認為的　愛就夠了　其實從來都不夠

因為我們總是會愛自己多一點

愛自己　沒有錯

就讓我在學習再愛之前

好好的再愛自己

珍惜與自己對話的每一個時刻

就像現在

晚安 :) 

"If I could live one more day in life" - continue...TO BE HAPPY

Ever since Facebook has this function "On this Day" to look back and refresh what I've posted on this particular day - years ago. 

I really look back on it - like literally everyday, to see how stupid I was and what I've done years ago, well that's was my growing up process.. Still, I'm growing and learning from the past. 

But other than Facebook, now that I'm back to blog, I always look at what I've blogged about too.

5 years ago, today, I posted a title "If you could live on more day in life"

I wrote that after I read a blog by a young girl who was suffering from cancer. 

I believe she has passed away since her blog has stopped updating..

I'm not too sure but I believe she did fought hard until the very last second of her life. 

And her story, did last..And able to encourage some of the people (at least me at that point of time) who is suffering from their daily lives. 

It's heartache to write this..

 Even I don't really know her, and I'm just a stranger. 

But I still remember how heartache I was to wrote about that post, that a young bright girl has gone through so much pain in her life, yet she is so encouraging, wise and thoughtful. 

Now that she's gone...

"What if I could live one more day in my life?"

My thought would be the same as 5 years ago - "appreciate the time that I have now. Doing things that I think I should do, and things that I like to do, as there is no tomorrow for me"

Now that I would add on "DO WHAT I SHOULD AND BE HAPPY."

BE HAPPY is the key, and my goal in life. 

It sounds simple yet it's so hard to achieve. 

When we will never satisfy for what we are having now.

I just hope that I'm able to remind myself "To stay SIMPLE"

Try not to compare, for everything that others have but you don't. 

Try not to jealous, for everything that others have achieved but you don't.

Try not to hate, and always remember and prepare to forgive, to anyone who has hurt you or trying to hurt you. 

Always be loving and spread the love, that's how I can contribute to this world :)

2012 to 2013

Hi here I am posting the last blog for this year 2012.

2012 is a challenge year for me.

My degree third year and I am going to end my University life next year and a new page of life will be coming soon. Real soon.

Let’s flash back what I had done in the past 12 months in 2012.

What I can categorized this year is before and after I meet her.

Before I meet her, I was busy with my life full of events and what I gained is those joyful memories and wonderful experiences with wonderful people. This is the earlier months in 2012.

In the mid 2012, my life changed as I met her.

This wonderful girl in my life, who is so important to me and I could not barely think how could I live without her.

We began like most couple did. Flirting over phones, social platforms and go out in group for around 2months.

And finally I spoke it out with full of bravery in my life, that I never did. We get together.

In these 8 months I had been with her, just like the other couples did, we did argue, we did have fun, we did cry, we did laugh, we did everything that show how much we love others. We hate each other weaknesses, coward-ness, stupidity, but we love those sweet deeds, romance and surprises. It’s all LOVE.

And yes finally I realized what my friends had told me before, what I am before I fall in love and who I am now after I fall in love, could be different. I think this could be what I had learned the most in love. We need to take care of the other’s feelings.

I couldn’t be selfish anymore as I what did before, care-free for everything. But now I have to bear with whatever feelings that happened to her, or related to her. I have to remember that I am no longer an only person but I could have done many things that related to her.

2012, is not a world end year. But a year full of love for me.

My new year wish is just hope we could still stay together happily.

Hope we got a peaceful year ahead. With full of love, joy and fun

Happy New Year Everyone

Long Lost Love

It’s been a long time I lived through this life.
And I never been thought of I can found someone like you.
Someone that I so care about.
Like Rose could never know she can meet someone like Jack at Titanic,
that she can fell so much into him and the love is so long lasting.
And finally I found you.
Hold me tight and I will hold to yours, too.
“When I first meet you, I never thought that you are so important to me…”
And that now I know it, I will never let you go.

坚强它迷了路

今晚凌乱的思绪 复杂的心情
又把自己带到来了这里
所谓的复杂
是因为最近自己的遭遇
养了接近10年的狗狗，那么突然的离开
除了惋惜，欲是不舍。
我知道自己不是一个很好的狗主人，
我只希望它下一辈子能够有更好的生活，
在另外一个我看不到你的世界，
好好的……

最近的自己
很眼浅
很懦弱
遇到一些不开心的事就很容易掉眼泪
我很希望找回那个坚强的自己……

If I were a sunny doll

It’s been a while and I found it’s really hard for me to put something down easily. Especially something that had influence my mood. Mood swinging around and I become lost control, for sometimes, but recently, quite frequent.

Sometimes I just confuse about life. To please others or to please myself? Yes. Many said, of course we must live to please ourselves! Just be yourself. In fact, did you? or… can you? Can you live selfishly just to please yourself without caring for others? Frankly, life is not just about you. It’s always about you…and others. Of course we could not please everyone in life. For sometimes, we failed. We failed to please some and we might feel tired to please others in life, at certain point of time. Contradiction comes in play. At first we think, why we want to please others always when we are not feeling to or forced to? But we do actually care what may happened to others, because we just care-on-the-person-that-we-care-about. Just because we care, it may hurt, when comes to disappointment or we failed to please them. Not trying to evoke any sad or emotional post for today, it’s just a piece of thought from me today.

 

Icantpleaseeveryonejustlikethesesunnydollsdid.

But I will try my best to make you smile

一个影片 勾起了无数的回忆

不好意思最近写得比较频密~
因为有少许的感触
也除了写部落 对其他事都没感什么兴趣

刚看完了 Selina即将要出嫁的影片
极力极力的推荐！！！
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=XSZyniISoqo

♥那张还留在硬盘里 她们的照片♥

真的有很多感触。
不单单是因为支持了她们整整10年之久
也因为她们 陪着我成长
我可以说听她们的歌长大的
10年了
除了喜欢她们的歌
也很喜欢她们爽朗 直率的个性
从来就不做作
喜欢她们 因为她们 就是她们
我永远最爱的女子天团

那为什么那一段不长不短的影片 会勾起无数的回忆呢？

你们有没有试过
当耳边响起熟悉的旋律时
某一段 你曾经 经历过的画面出现了？
然而 就是如此
陪着我长大的歌 如此的熟悉
让那段深藏已久的记忆
缓缓在脑海中浮现

我甚至打开了file 看着自己以前的照片
还是那句 ‘不堪入目’
果然是‘青涩’、‘年轻’还有不懂如何形容
或许年少轻狂 还是这句话形容得最贴切
以前的自己 可以做事不经大脑
但是很直率 很容易为了小事而狂笑
现在的自己 凡事深思熟虑
还会嘲笑 那貌似曾经的自己 的学生们 孩子们
但好像没那么多真挚的笑容了
因为懂得思考了
也因为那思考能力 时常提醒自己
不能像个小孩 要‘大人’一点
不能那么明显 要保持神秘
很少人多时大笑 要保持形象
不能这样 不能那样

但渐渐的自己 也习惯了那样的保护色
总在人前隐藏着那真真切切的自己
不喜欢被猜透的感觉
就好像光脱脱的把自己展现在别人眼前
那层厚厚的 看不透的 保护色
不是刻意 那只是习惯了
尽管有时还是会提醒自己 要自然一点
但是 我就是如此的
不想长大
但还是长大了
没办法 再停留在那不现实的国度

就像曾经的那三个天真的女生
也变成了魅力四射的女人
自己 也不再是10岁的小孩

习惯的离别

早已习惯了离别 不要说我无情 冷淡

只是看透了一些事 与 物

没有人能紧紧抓住什么

我说 就是因为有了离别

才有期待相聚的一刻

等待可能是痛苦的

但是因为难得 才显得可贵

人不都是这样吗？

要稀有 才有人争 才会去抢

越来越少人会去想 当初为了什么去抢

没有人想要了解 而是为了争 而争

为了得到 而得到

学会珍惜 可能真的是我们人生学不完的课程

早来的中秋，

可能大家都真的要各散东西了，

可能这是大家能够在今年齐聚一堂的最后一次了，

一切都不同了，

但一样的是，彼此都还珍惜着这铁一般的友情。

不好意思动粗了，

因为这就是真实的我们 =P

等待着反攻

是否有过那样的念头？想着 平凡的过着简单的生活就行了

单纯的 做着自己想要做的东西 就可以了

但 事实是 要简单 要单纯回到自己最初的想法前

总要经过一段很复杂 很崎岖 的过程与路途

没有人想着做自己不想要做的事

没有人想要一些不好的事情发生在自己身上

但是 事实有时就是如此的残酷

现在没有反驳的机会　不代表以后没有

现在没有那样的能力　不代表以后没有

有太多的事情要考量了

立场　有时候可能不一

但是如果那么就轻易放弃

那么是不是也应该放弃本身的价值观？

放弃原有设定的目标与梦想？

现在不能去做　没关系

等待不代表放弃

只是在等待着一个时机　去反驳

驳回一切的不公

生活的态度　只是似乎你自己如何去看待

Touch your heart and ask yourself, is this the attitude you want for your life?

Filial,it’s now. 孝顺，要及时。

这是我们从小到大学的道理，为什么有时候要长大了，体会了，才会懂？

有些人甚至要等到体验了，后悔了，但是却发觉一切已来不及了……

知道自己为了学会，为了别人，为了自己，为了活动，可以有多忙。但却渐渐发觉自己却没有把时间安排给家人。尤其是妈妈打来问我几时的空可以回去陪她看医生，却打开了画满圈圈时间表，我斟酌了许会，才心虚的答道，有考试、有功课、有活动要忙。看看了这一切的东西，才发觉所有事情不是为了自己，就是为了别人的活动。自己到底为了这个家付出了多少？到底曾为了妈妈付出过什么？只是一点点要求，我都做不到，我这个女儿可以丢掉了。

我没有说自己是真的很孝顺。也没有说听父母的话，就是孝顺的人。但是至少我觉得在他们需要我们的时候，身为子女的，是不是应该陪在他们的身边，就算帮不到什么忙，也至少能够给与他们精神上的支持。你甚至可以想象一下就好像我们有难的时候，是不是第一个就会想起他们，是不是很希望他们在我们的身边呢？其实我们都是自私的。只一直希望受到关爱，受到保护，觉得一切都是应分的，他们应该做的。但是他们其实可以停止养育，停止对我们一切的保护，甚至不管我们。想一下我也活到了20岁了。在这19个年里头，如果没有了妈妈，我到底算什么？我真的无法想像。

是她，养活我这个人。是她，教我如何做人。也是她，教会我如何对待人。

如果我还不会想，还那么的自私，我还算是人吗？其实话说得有点严重的。我只是想认真地对待，‘孝顺’这两个字。自我反省或发人深省都好，不但要明白了之中的道理与意思，当然行动还是最实际。所以也突然做出决定要回去一趟，就算再忙、再累都好，付出那么一点点算得了什么。无论如何，决定了要做的事情，还会坚持下去，我相信一切会过去的

There are many things a grown up should do. Perhaps now, for me, filial, is the most important thing for me to do. It does not show our maturity, but I just do what a HUMAN needs to do. =)

I miss those days.

Oh yesterday was so fun. The story began when Ms. Chee Winnie(thank me for mention u here…LOL) tagged us in a post, and ask us to add one of our Malay teachers during Form 2/3, which I also forgot since so long time. And we started our gossips at her post.

See her post also reached 41 comments.

And as what I mentioned in my post in our private chat room, those gossips were too obvious and sensitive, so I started on the topic again in our chat room. The PRIVATE one of course

This is the result that I get since yesterday night. These particular post reached 100 comments within 20 minutes. (see my friends are all so active at FB ~.~) This 187 comments keep on increasing until now, when I am blogging, yes NOW, it have reached 194 comments. (Don’t mind me keep track on it, since this number is amazing and meaningful for us. =))

It was so amazing to say, being with them is just so great. Till I nearly forget, I have an exam for today. Supposed to study, but end up with jokes and gossips about the past. Yes, we all miss the past. The time where we are all had crazy memories together. Ponteng class, playing around, making jokes and nicknames for the teachers. I liked what Winnie said “SMKM without us = no fun” Totally support man~! Haha~! The school is the place we had so much fun there, regardless the teachers like it or not, we just being ourselves there. But we all know, the teachers are missing us =P

Too much past to talk about, as we shared too much memories together. If we sit down, have a cup of tea and talk about it, we can spend a whole day long for it. The best thing was, not that we had great lame jokes, not that we making fun with all the teachers, but I saw REAL FRIENDSHIP, we do appreciate each other, though we are far apart, we hardly to meet each other once in a blue moon, we still can have that long long conversation, no matter in what form.

I know we can never had time get back to the past. But I just want to tell you all, even tell the world that, I JUST LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH~! And I Miss every single moment that we had spend together.

Another thing that makes me feel more warmth is that I saw friends really blogged in a sense that we(as friends) are chasing and looking for their updates. And yes, I will be the first one hand up, since I am a crazy blog walker, but only primarily for friends’ blog =X  I am WATCHING YOU too as you are watching me now. haha.

So this is end of my day? Wanted to recommend some nice movies. I just cant help and like to download movies whenever exam is around. Don’t ask me why, I just felt to do so =( Maybe some intrinsic motivation initiates me when I was stress, and so wanted to enjoy after exam? =P

Watched recently- No string attached (2011), by Natalie Portman, the one I was so into after “Black Swan”, she is amazing. Another on-going downloading movie called “The other woman(2009)”, acted by her also, HD version, NICE =D  Another movie that I just watched today, 127hours (2011). I have it in HD version too. I was just too excited to see those high definition thing already~!!!  Yet, this is also another inspiring movie, if you feel to give up on something, watch it. A Thailand movie “初恋这件小事(2010)” or“The little first love”(I translated myself), quite a nice and fun movie to share. First Thailand movie in kind of love story based that I ever watched, now only I know Thailand wasn’t just good in ghost and scary movies, but they can make good love story too. Most importantly, the main characters are leng zai leng lui~LOL. They don’t look very “Thai”, but more to a mixed =S

Enjoyed it and feel free to get it from me =D

沉

总在面对考试时，终于感觉到，时间不够了，有太多东西要做了，时间总是不够拿来温习。是自己太忙了，还是自己时间管理有问题？大多数都是后者。我不觉得有时候接太多东西，忙到没有时间吃饭或睡觉。至少我觉得生活是充实的，是开心的。

对，这个学期，就要这么过去了。悄悄的，我好像还没来得及看到自己学到什么新东西。但是课外的东西，可就不同了。接下了华文学会，刚进了饥饿三十筹委，这一年会把自己弄得比上一年更忙吧……疯狂的，活着我的岁月

会尽量，吸收所有东西，就像在书本上学不到的，我会更用心去体会。

体验着、细心的品味着，生活的点点滴滴。有时候会烦躁，有时候会为了小事情而觉得不开心，不喜欢被打扰，零乱的生活已经够麻烦了，但是有时候避免不了，自己的原则还在，但是也习惯接受，这一切想要或不想要的，告诉自己：“这可是生活啊~”要或不要其实大家都是身不由己。

但最近的自己很喜欢‘说服’。努力地说服自己，说服别人。生活还不是要努力地催眠自己，要不然我还能活到20几年啊……?

只要告诉自己，‘你要你行的，你行的，你行的”三遍不够，就够10遍，10遍不够，加够100遍。就算不行，至少自己的心，是温暖的。这个原理是可行的。人还不是欺骗来欺骗去，欺骗自己，应该觉得更加容易。

所以接下来我要做的事是继续催眠自己，

“去读书，去读书，去读书……”

然后欺骗自己“你可以的，你可以的，你可以的……”

Dak? Dak Jo~!

Little new life

Today is a big day~ My brother’s son was born~!!! I am being an aunty AGAIN. Yes, having a new nephew again~ Since my sister’s evil son was born first. This little cute thing will be a little bit different since he will live in with us in the same house and direct blood link to us. I got the amazing feel to a new born baby especially in MY family. Even I was not there, at my hometown, got the chance to visit them, I do feel the happiness within the family for welcoming this new life. My blast to this new born baby~ even I am not so sure his name yet. I hope he can live happily and stay healthy =)

Daigor, daisou, baby and mummy

♥Cute new born baby♥

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Another big day for tomorrow my dear friend Ms. Lau Chee Foon a.k.a Ms. Alice birthday. She and my other friends who have took STPM and other STPM candidates as well will take their results tomorrow. What can I say is all the best and may their wishes, pray or whatever hopes can be fulfilled.

今天只做一件事 by Eason Chan dedicated to you, the birthday star. Just feel to let you listen to this song at the moment. Feel the peace. =)

Don’t feel to end it so soon

I have very ordinary CNY this year. Again. Not surprisingly, I was able to meet many relatives and friends as well. The best part was the reunion feel within the small family and I really love my family deep in my heart ♥

♥ Family are family ♥

My mum’s cook is the best in the world. Over the past one week, I just never, yes is NEVER eat outside food~!!! I am totally in love with mum’s cook~ the fish, the chicken, the spareribs, the soup…… I just missed all of them. and this is the first time I feel the happiness after being at KL for around 2 years. Love you mum

My brothers are still that childish and bully. even they are good to me in some sense. And new members will be coming to our home very soon. Hope this little baby will bring more happiness and fortune to our family

And sister’s family. Still that funny. And her son, my nephew is still a bully, same as my brothers. I don’t understand why I am always being the one who get bullied at home =( Life is unfair.

My dog, Bobo, looked better somehow after visit the veterinarian. I just hope she can stay healthy always to make us complete family. I am so grateful that I live over 20 years with my beloved family. You all are the best. Thanks for being my family =)

Family photo without eldest bro, who was still sleeping

The brother and sisters

And lastly my mum and me ♥

It is just the 4th day of the CNY. The celebration was just started. But we have to end there as school reopen and work gonna continue as well. It’s just maybe once in a year we can enjoy like this. During this season, we are grateful.

其实我们都知道 因为难得 才显得珍贵

难能可贵的团圆 才值得庆祝

虽然满是怀念

但是那会带来期待

期待下一次的来临

再聚  for family and for friends =)

1.1.11

不懂得怎么开始写这篇文章，但却有很多东西想和大家分享。这个新年过得有点疲惫，因为刚从camp回来，大家都‘玩得’或是被折磨得很够力，但是又不想就这么浪费这个倒数新年的时刻，结果大家就硬撑到早上三四点才肯睡觉。简单的倒数，但对我来说却是特别的。少了某些东西，却多了一些不一样的。对于取舍，自己算是拿捏得不错了。

对于过去的一年，都过得很充实。加入了下乡团是我最大的获益。遇到了不同的人，大家却有着同样的梦想，一起经历过、欢笑过、哭过……这样的一年，我学会了看化一切。记得珍惜，一直是我的座右铭。但珍惜会使到自己不舍或感到不开心的话，不如学会释放。一生中遇到的人太多，我们都可能来不及抓住任何一个，但是不要紧，曾经拥有也是一种美。回忆总是美，就像烟花一样，我们都抓不住那一瞬间要消失的烟花，但是却能把那美丽换成记忆，记得那意义，人生的经历不过就是如此吗？

人一直一直地成长，但是我觉得真正的成长，是在于自己有多了解自己，是否意识到自己在成长着……当然我是指心灵上与思想上。在这已熟悉的陌生城市生活了快要两年，成长是必然，我没有要耍老的意思，只是觉得自己也慢慢踏入了2字头的命运，是不能再耍白痴或写一些没有思想的东西了。20岁，要跨出那个界限之前，我对自己说要保持坚强，做好心理准备去迎接这个阶段要面对的一切，要学习，不断的学习不同的东西，提醒自己不要再犯同样的错误，要尽量做回自己。

在立定目标前，我要先谢谢一直默默为我加油的妈妈，永远不会离弃我的家人，还有所有陪我一起经历成长的朋友，因为有你们，我才不会孤单的话着……

 Port Dickson的海与天空

我喜欢海，因为有自由的感觉，吹着海风，听着海浪的声音，我活着。

活在同一片天空下，你听到我的声音吗？

下乡人，一家人。

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Friends, thank you for everything and let the past stay at the past. Should let the memories keep sweet and beautiful always. No matter what I’ve done to you badly, do forgive me. I would like to use the time in the future, perhaps in this year, I try my best to play a part to become your better friend. 

It’s time to recharge myself and prepare for the journey in 2011.

Gar  you  to you and me =)

神圣·婚礼

I am not suppose to say how tired this wedding trip was. I am not suppose to say how rush we all were. I am not suppose to say how amazing the feeling it was during our 'private night car talk’ along the journey. I am not suppose to say some feeling just get into my heart that easily. There are many things I wanted to share with, for this two days lost to my lovely lecturer—Ms. Jasamine’s JB wedding.

Yeap it was firstly a crazy journey to go JB at 12midnight. And we reached Hui Kee’s house about 3something in the morning. 2 hours later get up at 6something, getting dressed, off to video shooting, and this is my all day long for this particular wedding.

But really feel grateful because this is my first time went to  a Christian’s wedding, which is very different from traditional Chinese wedding. The feelings brought to me at the Church was really amazing and unexplainable. I just hardly to express in words. Please allow me continue with Chinese…

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真的觉得获益良多。对于这场婚礼，仓促、繁忙、劳累……但是这一切我都觉得很值得。 至少在感觉上，心灵上，很满足……也真的很感动……

第一次，全程拍摄一个完整的婚礼。

第一次，感受到那份爱可以真的那么的纯真。

第一次，看到那对坚定不移的眼神、紧握的双手，而感动。

当新郎签下婚姻协议书

当新郎当场作一首歌来表达对新娘的爱意

当新郎 与新娘 宣誓 要一起走到老时

当新郎紧紧握着新娘的手，把戒指套上的那一刻

我都觉得这一切都来得不容易

很神圣，并无法形容的感觉

真的要亲身站在现场，才能真正地感受到

我实在无法形容那已失去感觉……

但是真的很深刻

那压抑的激动

相信这就是世上的希望

对爱的希望

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我是一个很难相信爱的人，对于爱，我觉得很虚幻，没有保障，更没有永恒。朋友说我太理性。可能吧。但是今天的这场婚礼真的有触动到自己感性的那面了。真的要掉下眼泪，就在新郎新娘宣誓的那一刻。我觉得很真，真的觉得有一份真爱其实是存在的……感觉真的可以有那么一对人，深深地爱着对方，肯为对方牺牲，包容对方的一切……一切都发生在那一刻……也真太不可思议了……因为真正地感受到那份悸动与喜悦……已超越一切……

我感受到了，也领略不少……

有时候，无声胜有声

只想祝福这一对新人幸福快乐……在你们的‘主’关怀下，能够一起走到生命的最后……